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how do i know? :(
sherwin09

i've been suspecting my wife is using birth control pills. i come to this idea when she mentioned one time that she doesn't want to have baby. my question is, how do i know if she's taking pills?


mitch

there's no way you will know about it. why don't you just ask her?


ara

i agree, talk to your wife. if you trust her enough then i don't think you should still insist that she's been using pills.


joshua

trust your wife but trust more on your instincts... hehehe... it's based on my experienced...


Jasper_Jose

If your wife doesn't want to have a baby, respect her decision.Maybe she's not ready yet..You're asking how will you know if she's taking pills? Simply ask her.There's nothing wrong in asking, but do it in a nice way as if your not suspecting her.



liz

i wanted to ask her but i'm too afraid she might lie to me. i don't want to break my trust with her. i heard that taking pills decreases sex drive and i noticed it with her too... please spare me some advice...


shantylle

if you are doubting your wife then try to secretly check your medicine kit if you can find some pills...^^


ciara

haven't you talk to your wife about having a baby?why not talking to her about this before going to bed at night?i have a question..do u want to have a baby?


cez

hi!if you want to have a baby explain to her what you really want and ask her opinion about having a baby...



floramay

if she doesn't want to have a baby as of the moment then try to come up with a decision when to have a baby...what do u think?:)


jovz

i agree with floramay...it's the best thing to agree because in the first place it's not easy to have a baby....


jake

how long have you been married???have you had kids?


sherwin09

we've been married for a year..and i'm already 30 and she's 28...


cindel

do you wantto have a baby now???don't you think you need a year more to enjoy both your lives?


sherwin09

i think we are old enough to have a baby..i'm sure we can raise the baby because we both work..and we are not getting any younger..i'll get older and my child is still young..


elly

then, if that's what you want better to talk to your wife about it...surely, she can understand..and i guess she doesn't want to hurry things.she might want to really plan it and wait for the right time...don't doubt her...


hale

i think you guys need to have a heart to heart talk.have you tried and ask her why she doesn't want to have a baby?